My reactions to certain things that used to bother me is quite different now. I’ve taken time to pause and reassess my thought process before I decide to open my mouth and speak. I don’t think this is going on well in the eyes of some but it’s working for me. Sometimes people become so used to how you do things that change is hard to accept, yet I am changing. And change means growth. For me it is a good thing. I am evolving…this is why I love the butterfly.