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Writing 101 – Day Fourteen

Today’s Prompt: Pick up the nearest book and flip to page 29. What’s the first word that jumps off the page? Use this word as your springboard for inspiration. If you need a boost, Google the word and see what images appear, and then go from there.

I open the book and on page 29 “irrational” flashed at me. I googled it and clicked image. A picture of Jack Nicholson from The Shining in his role as writer Jack Torrence with his face poked through the butchered door. The first thing that popped was REDRUM.

I think when you have opinions that differ from mainstream and you don’t wish to conform you’re labelled as irrational. I have been irrational a time or two. If there weren’t irrational people in this world, it wouldn’t continue to rotate on its axis. It’s just the way it is. Irrational people make the world go round. Differences make us delicious. I find it quite interesting when I wear my hair wild and free that I get different reactions versus me wearing my hair pulled back in a ponytail or bun. My hair becomes a topic for discussion. The main topic becomes: “why don’t I straighten it?” My answer every time is no and why should I have to conform to your definition of beauty. There I go again being irrational. I am comfortable with the way my hair grows from my scalp. I have been told that I am being confrontational because it’s so dramatic, it shocks. Really?! My genetics and biology is shocking and confrontational. And of course, my melanin is as well so I might as well continue to shock the world right. I mean I cannot hide my melanin can I? It’s there for everyone to see. Just like my hair.

The need to assimilate caused my father to force me to conform in junior high. I continued that conformity for sixteen years. I always hated it but I didn’t how to go about making a change. I debated with myself for a couple more years and then say fuck it and grew my hair out of the relaxer. I waited until it grew out to a length I thought would be okay to cut. The rest is history. I felt authentic after the cut and I still do. I don’t have to hide or pretend to be something I am not. I love being me.

Are you willing to be irrational for what you believe in? Are you being authentic? If not, you should try it.

Ayurvedic Hair Care

So I know it’s been real long minute since I’ve blogged anything so here goes.

Ayurvedic Hair Care

I’ve been wanting to try ayurveda herbs as an alternative to commercial hair products. If you want to read up on ayurveda, here are two good sources:


So on Saturday, I did my first mix. I loved the results but I didn’t love the application process ewwww lol. I started by creating a tea using 1/4 cup dried hibiscus flower petals & 2 tbsp of fenugreek with 2 cups of filtered water which I allowed to steep for an hour. This yielded about a cup and half. I let the tea cool for about 20 mins. To a half a cup of the tea I added 2 tbsp each of alma powder & neem powder. Since I prepoo’d with coconut oil, I was ready to apply the paste. I sectioned my hair in fours and applied until all the paste was gone. After the paste was applied to my hair and scalp I let it sit with a plastic bag for 1 1/2 hours. I cowashed x 3 and did an ACV rinse to remove all the paste from my hair. Afterwards my hair was SOOOOOOOOOOOO SOFT! It felt soooo fluffy. I love the fact that my hair smells like hibiscus flowers. YUM! I didn’t wanna do anything to it lol. Now that application process…ugh. I started out using an applicator brush but ended up just using my hands. No one told me to get gloves. That stuff was everywhere. I know for next time.