I think I have come to a conclusion about my family and I know that I have to keep my distance. I will not have chaos around me at all for any reason. They are becoming persistent about my homecoming and now it is a nuisance. I am not one to be told what to do and you would think they’d get that by now. Talking to them on the phone doesn’t work so I don’t know what made me think face to face would. So what will I do for Christmas…..anybody else willing to travel for good food and company LOL!??